New vlog all about looking after your hair in the colder months, hope you enjoy!! x
Laain activewear VLOG
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5 Winter Skincare Tips VLOG
Here's my latest vlog - 5 Winter Skincare Tips!
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HAIR exhibition by Sam McKnight at Somerset House
On Friday I went to HAIR by Sam McKnight at Somerset House in London.
Exhibitions can be hit and miss for me - sometimes I have the highest expectations and the exhibits fall short. This exhibition however was a spontaneous visit so I had no preconceived thoughts on it whatsoever, and it was fantastic: beautifully laid out, thoughtfully curated and visually captivating.
And whilst I didn't know very much about Sam McKnight, I left with a real sense of the man and his passion for his work. It's the kind of exhibition you want to take your time over....You're getting that I loved it, right?
Unusually as well, you are allowed to take pictures (which I was delighted about) provided they are taken without a flash. I didn't take my good camera but here are some snaps I took on my phone that I wanted to share with you.
It's running till the 12 March 2017 so get down there - if like me you like fashion, glamour and hair...
New Year - New Me?
Aaaaaargh!!!!I can’t quite believe it is the middle of January already - 2017 is in full flow and so far so good. I know loads of people who are not crazy about the New Year, but I love it - fresh starts, clean slates and new plans.
This year I was struggling with resolutions - so I decided to look some of my habits and fine-tune them. I have dubbed 2017 as my year of self-improvement and living life to the full (!!)… I’ve written it down now – so there is no going back!
Here are some habits I want to improve this year:
1. STOP MULTI-TASKING.
I don’t know about you but I am often juggling more than one thing at a time. Multitasking can be instinctive as life is busy and many of us have almost programmed ourselves to think it’s the best way to get “stuff” done. But it can be detrimental. Of course, I am delighted when I juggle any number of things and they neatly end up as they should - but more often than not, I end up scrabbling around and not putting all my attention into one thing at a time and everything takes longer. So this year I am going to be more methodical and enjoy each separate task, whatever it may be.
2. LIVING IN THE MOMENT.
One of the key phrases of my adult life, and I am a big advocate of this. I tell friends and family to enjoy and savour the present – but I am not good at practising what I preach. I am great planner so I am always ready for the future. And there are times when this is really useful but the trouble is, the present moment can get lost and that’s a shame. So, I have promised myself I am not going to do that anymore.
3. FITNESS GOALS.
This year I plan to be stronger, fitter and a little leaner by the end of the year. But my main fitness goal is to stop weighing myself. A lot of us judge ourselves by the number on the scale and if it isn’t favourable, well I don’t know about you – but I can be pretty hard on myself. So in the spirit of improving and being kinder to myself - I’m going to stop. I guess if you like how you look in the mirror and your clothes fit well – what bearing does the number have?
4. LET IT GO.
I’m rubbish at this one. But I have decided to tackle it head on. Sometimes things don’t go your own way – the balance between knowing when to keep trying and knowing when to let go is a tricky one. I personally hate giving up or conceding defeat but in the long run, sometimes it can be better to cut your loses. Similarly, emotionally there is no benefit to holding onto negativity. The trouble with me is I am like an elephant, I don’t forget a thing …but remembering everything is not always helpful. So I’m going to let it go.....hmm, I'm feeling pretty “Zen” already :)
5. And now for a conventional resolution – A NEW SKILL.
When I was younger I used to dance a lot – ballet, ballroom and a lots of Indian dance – but never Latin and I have always wanted to try. So last week, on a whim I decided to book a lesson. Turns out I have rhythm and I can kinda do it. Lesson one was the basics of cha cha cha and I’m going back for more this week. The pinnacle for me, will be if I can learn the tango…but it might be while…
Wow, getting that all down was really rather therapeutic – what about you – what are your plans for yourself this year?
Studio 10 product review VLOG
Here's my review of the Studio 10 products I was sent...enjoy x
My search for the perfect coat…and... to cape or not to cape?
It was really cold in London a few weeks ago and I found myself googling winter coats with increasingly regularity. Turns out it was timely research as this morning the chilliness was back.
I’m not really a coat girl. I have a big, warm “going-out” coat, that I bought from Max Mara about ten years ago, which is still going strong, but it is a bit glam for the day – even for me.
I seem to get through the winter with a variety of jackets, scarves and big woolly sweaters. But my everyday blazer is just not cutting it and whilst I am leather jacket obsessed, I feel like I need another option this winter.
So I decided I was in the market for a new coat and here's what I have found so far:
1. Haider Ackermann houndstooth long coat (available from www.matchesfashion.com)
I tend to steer clear of coloured coats but this is unbelievably gorgeous.
As I have mentioned a few times before - Haider Ackermann cannot put a foot wrong in my eyes this season…so having seen this coat I had to try.
The price tag is "gulp worthy" (I don't know if gulp worthy is an actual phrase, but I'm sure you understand my meaning)....but it doesn’t cost to try :)
I had really high expectations when I tried this on. But instead of feeling like a million dollars, I looked like a small child trying on a grown up’s coat.
If you have the budget, it is stunning – but I think you have to be tall for this one, it is quite fitted too.
2. Anna Sui black velvet cape (available from www.net-a-porter.com)
This is the second winter I have been eyeing up capes. I adore the idea but I am slightly worried I will look more “Little red riding hood” than "Cool fashionista" but I can get past that!
I have tried this cape but it’s not quite for me - firstly because I'd like armholes and secondly it is just not warm enough. Cosy is important for me…so my search continues...
3. Haider Ackermann velvet coat (Runway look from Haider Ackermann AW2016)
I know this obsession with Haider Ackermann is getting ridiculous but look at how sumptuous the red velvet is! I was reticent about all the velvet around this season as I did velvet with great gusto when I was about 16 but it is a gorgeously tactile fabric.
I haven't tried this coat, but I fear it would fit me similarly to the Haider Ackermann houndstooth coat.
4. Topshop puffer jacket (available from www.Topshop.com)
I read somewhere that puffers are back - I didn’t really think they had ever gone away?
I have always steered clear of a puffer, mainly because this would be my kids' go-to choice and this look is a bit sporty and street for me. But if I did, I'd go for something like this from Topshop, with a faux-fur trimmed hood. Best of all - it's machine washable and you've got to love that.
5. Zara water resistant trench coat (available from www.Zara.com)
I love a trench coat. To me, they combine practicality with an air of sophistication and this is a gorgeous example from Zara.
I have a mate who has a number (!) of the classic Burberry trench coats and totally rocks them…but they are not for me and I haven't really worked out why.
6. The Huesca coat from S Max Mara (available from www.matchesfashion.com)
So whilst I am still looking for my perfect cape, I saw this a few weeks ago. This coat is faux-astrakhan (actually acrylic, cotton and polyester). It's glamorous with a vintage feel. It also has 3/4 length sleeves which I adore. Not sure I look as cool as the model in the picture but the minute I tried this on, I knew it was me...job done...for now :)
New products from Aurelia Probiotic Skincare
After hot footing it back from Ibiza last week, I jumped on the tube, bright and early one morning, to head to Aurelia Probiotic Skincare’s pop-up shop in Piccadilly, London, to meet their team, and check out three new products they are adding to their line.
Aurelia, founded by dermatology expert Claire Vevo, is a British, all-natural, anti-ageing skincare range which uses probiotics to help manage the levels of inflammation within the skin which is one of the primary causes of skin ageing.
Their aim is to offer age-defying technology, without synthetics, parabens, phthalates or other unnecessary additives which could compromise the integrity of the plant extracts and essences they use.
The new products being launched are:
Botanical Cream Deodorant:
This tub of deodorant is a natural, aluminium-free formula that contains antimicrobial Arrowroot and pure Kaolin.
What’s slightly weird is you scoop a little bit out and apply it with your finger like a cream but when on the skin it turns into a powder-like consistency.
It contains Tea-tree, Eucalyptus and Peppermints oils for their antiseptic and antibacterial properties and Shea Butter to gently hydrate - it smells lovely as do all the Aurelia products.
To be honest I haven’t tried it yet, as I am finishing my current deodorant – but I am definitely going to give it a go and I’ll report back once I have used it for a few weeks.
2. Calming Botanical Essence:
This is a lightweight facial mist designed to relieve stress whilst soothing the mind. This kind of product is right up my street – I love skincare products that have a strong mind-body connection.
The mist is made from filtered glacier water and rose quartz crystal water, with a blend of essential oils including Linden Blossom, Chamomile, Camellia and Lavender – which aid relaxation and Fragonia extract which is known to alleviate jet lag and insomnia.
Facial mists are great to use as toners after cleansing, but also to set and refresh your make up throughout the day.
3. Brightening Botanical Essence:
The Brightening Botanical Essence has been created to uplift, energise and invigorate the skin and mind - it also contains magnesium salts to detoxify the skin. The blend of essential oils in the Brightening complex includes Geranium, Cedarwood, Fennel and Magnolia.
This, I have tried, and I love it.
What really stood out to me was whilst Aurelia is a luxury brand, the education of younger women in skincare is high on their lists of priorities. As a mother of a 19 year old – this really appealed to me.
Sometimes, when you are younger or on a budget you feel you can't justify investing in products that are more expensive. But Aurelia are keen to educate young women about their natural approach to skincare and the fact that what you put on your body is as important as what you put in it.
Also, as I have mentioned before on my blog - sometimes a higher priced product will go further in the long run...I knew a little bit about Aurelia before my visit, but I left armed with some lovely products and much more info... and it seems their passion and belief is contagious - altogether a lovely brand.
UMA Oils and Anti- Aging - My Autumn Skincare Regime VLOG
Here's my new VLOG, hot of the press x
Hold the phone! My hunt for the perfect pair of trousers has begun...
(Haider Ackermann - runway look from AW 2016)
Why is this a headline in my world, you may ask? Well I rarely wear trousers - I’m a definite dress/skirt girl, I always have been.
So jeans for instance don’t feature in my wardrobe. In fact, I shocked a mate on Friday by telling her I don’t own any jeans – she looked totally confused!!I have of course worn jeans in the past – but fashion and style choices, to me, are all about feeling great in whatever you’re wearing – and I don’t really feel my best in jeans - so I have phased them out of my wardrobe.
In my head, trousers are predominantly for the long and lean – and sadly I am neither.
There are however, two exceptions that I own. Firstly two pairs of Helmut Lang Reflex leggings that I have had for quite a few years (I think Helmut Lang still do them, check out www.helmutlang.com). These leggings are so comfy and don’t look like your typical leggings as they are straight at the ankle.
The second exception is a pair of Frame leather trousers, because…well…who doesn’t like a bit of leather in their wardrobe?!However, this Autumn/Winter unusually there are a number of trouser styles catching my eye.
So my thinking is this - the beauty of fashion is there really is something for everyone and as someone who is passionate about fashion, I shouldn’t really be so narrow-minded.
So, my search has begun and here are some faves so far:
Tailored trousers.
(Saint Laurent look from AW2016/17)
Hands down my favourite trend is the androgynous look, so I have been looking at a lot of tailored trousers. Nowadays, tailoring has been reworked to look so sexy, in my opinion. And top of the list for me are a beautiful burgundy pair of Haider Ackermann tapered trousers and some black Saint Laurent satin trimmed slim leg trousers.
2. Culottes.
(Roksanda: Jupe silk-crepe culottes available at Outnet.com)
I know a few people who wore culottes as part of their school uniform so they might be steering clear - but right now culottes are looking chic. My faves are the ones that look really fluid and more like a skirt, Tibi do this really well. But are culottes that look like a skirt a cope out??
3. Wide leg trousers.
(Zara: checked wide leg trousers available at Zara.com)
The appeal here is definitely fluidity of fabric, and I have seen some lovely Ganni wide legged trousers. I don't think I could go for anything where the fabric was too heavy or stiff but I fear I may be too short for this trend. But then again, with heels could I make these work?!Whenever I buy clothes I was focus on fit and fabric above all else so I guess I just need to apply this to trousers…Right, I'm off to do some more research, but if you have found the "must have" pair of trousers, give me shout :)
Don’t judge me just because I like pretty things…
(From the Emilio de la Morena show earlier this week)
We can all be quite judgemental - I suppose it’s an inherent part of human nature.
Despite my best efforts, I am not squeaky clean when it comes to judging others. For me, it is mainly small things like style choices. But occasionally it might be bigger issues, like someone behaving selfishly or hurting mine, or worse, my children’s feelings.But I tend not to judge if I don’t know anything about a particular subject.
On Tuesday I ran into a neighbour and whilst exchanging pleasantries I mentioned that I was excited that it was London Fashion Week this week, and that I was going to a party to celebrate 100 years of Vogue that evening. The neighbour, a man, frowned and said, “Fashion Week? Isn’t that just looking at clothes?
”The short answer is yes. This neighbour and I have very few areas of common interest – so I smiled and let it go – but I knew in that moment he had made a snap judgement of me, and it wasn’t favourable.
The real answer, however, is so much more involved. But how was I going to explain that to someone who has no understanding of an industry or desire to know about that industry?
From a creative idea in a designer’s brain that evolves into a whole collection of clothes – the colour palettes, the sumptuous fabrics, the detail, the embellishments, the way in which the pieces are finished and the incredible workmanship in so many cases - to the story that ties it all together. The artistry, fantasy and range of emotions that a runway show can take you on can be spectacular… and it irks me when fashion gets a bad rap.
My love of fashion has always led to judgement, ever since I was a child. I know some family members felt it was not cerebral enough of a passion and I know I am judged at times on how I dress and the height of the heels – but I don’t care…I have made my own clothes over the years, I have walked through the silk markets in Kolkata choosing fabrics for certain pieces I wanted to make, I seen how silks and cashmere are dyed – I know first hand how labour intensive making a item of clothing is and what a labour of love it can be. Like so many creative industries, there is much more to fashion than meets the eye.
So briefly – the party I went to on Tuesday night was hosted by Alexandra Shulman, Editor in Chief of Vogue and Ruth Chapman, founder of Matchesfashion.com. Many many fashionistas – designers, journalists, bloggers.
I spoke to lots of people and they were all so straightforward and interesting – and as I mentioned on my Instagram there was so little pretentiousness and ego in the room. It was such fun!
What I really want to say to my neighbour when we next meet is never assume what someone is like when you aren’t familiar with a particular area of interest and ....please don't judge me (!!)Without exception, everyone I met at the party was intelligent and insightful, with fascinating perspectives and smart business brains.
In fashion, whether they are a designer or a journalist - they take themes, creative ideas and what the consumer wants and elevate them to aspirational levels.
Fashion is an art form and whilst I am by no means an expert, as a singer/songwriter I see so many parallels. There is no end to possibility and creativity and that’s why I love it.
My weekly haircare products (and my new haircut) VLOG
You probably know by now, it's often all about hair with me....
Favourite body and hair products for my summer holidays…
Skincare and beauty comes a close second to my love of fashion. I’m less experimental with skincare – the first twenty years of my life were ruled by eczema so I am acutely aware of what suits my skin and hair and what does not.
Living in London – pollution and cold weather are definitely high on the list of criteria I consider when choosing products – along with trying to slow down the inevitable ageing process (!)
However, for me, going on my summer holiday means a much simpler beauty regime. Everything I use on my skin and hair focuses on hydration and nourishment and that’s about it.
Whilst I have never been one to bake in the sun, it is hard to stay completely in the shade and I adore feeling the heat on my body. So when away, I like to balance my need for vitamin D and looking after my skin and hair.
With that in mind, here’s my list of favourite products for my summer holiday:
Body lotion: My favourite holiday pick is John Masters blood orange and vanilla body milk (https://johnmasters.com). John Masters is a great organic brand and this lotion is light but nourishing. It also has aloe vera in it – which is anti-inflammatory and incredibly soothing. A key ingredient for me in the summer months. If I need a little extra oomph I add dry body oil. Something like Nuxe Huile Prodigieuse (https://uk.nuxe.com) or the Nuxe Huile Prodigieuse D’Or - the gold shimmer version, if like me, you like a bit of a shimmery glow on your body.
2. Sunscreen: Being naturally tanned I have had a longstanding issue with sunscreens. Historically, most are thick and white - which means they take ages to rub in and afterwards you can look slightly grey. So I was delighted when I discovered spray/mist sunscreens, a while ago. My favourite is Hampton Sun sunscreen (http://www.hamptonsuncare.com). This stuff is expensive; but as I only buy sunscreen once a year and one can goes a very along way I don’t mind splashing out on this. SPFs range from 15 to SPF70 (!!). These products are not only effective UVA/UVB broad spectrum sunscreens, they contain aloe vera and a multi-vitamin complex that nourish and hydrate your skin. Hampton Sun sunscreens also contain a compound called Polycrylene, which is said to increase the product's water resistance and filters more UVA rays than the "average" sunscreen. This is definitely a high tech option. There are cheaper versions on the market. I have used an ultra mist sunscreen from Banana Boat (http://www.bananaboat.co.uk) which, whilst not as luxurious, works.
3. Body scrubs: I don’t know if you are a body scrub fan or not – I am and even more so on a hot summer holiday – alternating between sun and sea is wonderful but can be quite drying on your skin. So a body scrub really makes a difference to skin tone by getting rid of dead skin cells. My personal fave at the moment is Prismologie’s Ruby and Cedarwood foaming scrub (https://www.prismologie.com). A little goes a long way and it is on sale at Space NK right now (Spacenk.co.uk).
4. Hair: As I have said before, I am a “wash your hair once a week” kinda girl. But on a hot summer holiday I wash my hair every day. For a few years now I have been using Intelligent Nutrients’ harmonic shampoo and conditioner (http://www.intelligentnutrients.co.uk) - simply gorgeous minty freshness. They balance cleansing and moisturising perfectly in my opinion. The shampoo can also double as a body wash. These products are described as anti-aging, antioxidant rich, volumizing and nourishing. The ingredients are food grade, and the products are formulated without sulphates, parabens, silicones, ethoxylates, PEG, phthalates, and synthetic fragrances. Pretty perfect if like me, you like natural hair care solutions.
As for hair styling products on holiday – I tend not to bother, other than maybe some of the dry oil I use for my body.
I take all my usual face products with me, but go minimal. Similarly, with make up. I find a little bit of primer, eyeliner, mascara and lip-gloss is all I want after a day at the beach.
I’d love to know what your favourite summer products are, let me know…
How this fashion addict shops the sales…
(Me in black and gold Gianvito Rossi sandals (from Matchesfashion.com bought at 30% off))
NOTE TO SELF: I have used this pic a lot, so I will create more photo opportunities!
In the olden days, let’s say 10 years ago, my head would be giddy at the prospect of the sales and I would employ what I would call the ”smash and grab” approach of shopping.
All I saw were discounted prices and I fooled myself into thinking I was saving in the long run. I would often spend more than I had originally planned - as I would buy a few things I had earmarked earlier in the season, but then I would buy random “bargains”. More often than not the impulse buys would sit in my wardrobe unloved and unworn.
Nowadays my shopping skills have been refined and I am altogether a more discerning shopper.
I rarely go into “actual” shops as I don’t have the time, and am not prepared to have an “elbows at dawn” type situation with someone over a lovely skirt. Instead I have a mental wish list and conduct thorough research online.
Here are a few things I do when I shop the sales:
1. Invest in timeless pieces. Sales are the perfect time to invest in clothes that outlive fads and “flash in the pan" trends. Whatever your budget you may fall in love with something but not be able to justify the cost at full price. That is the time to wait and pounce when the sales are on. There is a gamble here as if you are a popular size – it may sell out, but on the other hand you may end up with something beautiful at half the cost. Sales are the perfect time to look for an evening dress, a winter coat, a designer handbag or a lovely pair of shoes.
(Me in a Badgley Mischka red silk evening dress from Outnet.com reduced from around £600 to around £200)
2. Invest in replacements for your staples. Go through your go-to items. For me this could be black tops and silk shirts. But you have to be tough on yourself. If you have 5 black shirts you don’t wear, then do you really need another even if it reduced by 70%??? On the other hand if you have a couple of beautiful shirts that you have worn to death and are looking a little threadbare and will be hard to repair – go for the new one in the sales.
3. Do you really need it? Some people I know may be falling over at me asking this question, as fashion is not always a question of “need”. But sales shopping is about being savvy – I try not to get swayed by the price tag if I would never wear said item. For me – this equates to jeans; there is no point me ever buying jeans as I don’t wear them – so sale or no sale it’s waste of money!
4. Do you still love it? Many of us browse online or in shops and earmark things we might like to buy. But when the sales come round that particular lust may have waned. The speed at which brands drop new collections means there are new lines to choose from nearly every week. So think carefully – it would be a shame to spend your budget on something you no longer adored.
5. Does it work with your existing wardrobe? Finally when you get your purchase home or it arrives thanks to the wonder of online shopping – double check – does it compliment/go with a number of things in your wardrobe. Is it as lovely as you thought it was? If doesn’t tick all your boxes – send it back. There is no point having a bargain if it is going to sit in your wardrobe – that is false economy!!Every avid shopper knows there are lovely things for all of us – whatever our style, whatever our budget - every season. That is why the fashion industry is booming and is so good at what it does.
I have learned over the years to buy less but buy smarter. I guess I am saying have a strategy especially when you shop the sales…. And enjoy all those markdowns!
5 Short Girl “Fashion Rules” - Part 2:
(Me - in Gianvito Rossi sandals, Philip Lim skirt and a Tibi top)
Earlier this week I started looking at some “fashion rules” for short girls. As I said I feel I have a little authority here, as I am 5’2”.Here are my next five rules, and whilst I am coming from a vertically challenged perspective I do feel these five points could be relevant whatever your height.
So here goes:
The shape of your clothes. Beware of clothes that are too oversized or shapeless. Add a belt to create a more flattering shape, or tuck a particularly draped blouse in. There is nearly always a ”get around” to make something work for you.
(A old fave - my burgundy drapey Pyrus shirt)
2. Experiment with coordinating and clashing. I often read us short girls are better off wearing block colours or monochrome. Sometimes one colour head to toe or a black and white outfit look wonderful. But there are so many beautiful things out there to try. For me, fashion is all about enjoying what I am wearing and showing you my personality and how I am feeling on any given day. Some days I definitely feel more subdued and some days I feel “WAAAAHHHHHHH”!! So experiment - this season more than ever the clashing of patterns and colours is everywhere. And even you feel you make a mistake - it is only fashion…so have fun with it…
(A few faves from my wardrobe - A Peter Pilotto dress, Philip Lim top, Zara beige camisole...)
3. Dress for yourself. This might be a little contradictory given the subject of this post - because I am saying don’t follow someone else’s rules - but we all need to know the rules so we can choose which to follow and which to ignore. Knowing what you like to wear and what suits you is what it is all about. Ultimately, I believe the right fashion choices can boost your confidence - and confidence is a beautiful thing.
4. Less is more. There is a famous Coco Chanel quote, “Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off.” This is a great one for anyone really but especially us short girls. You don’t want to look “overdone” in your choice of outfit or accessories. Less is definitely more. For instance, personally, if I wear long earrings, I never wear a necklace. I never have an arm full of bracelets or rings on every finger. If my dress is simple, I can go a little crazier with my shoes or vice versa. I adore getting ready to go out whether I am working, meeting friends or going somewhere special but I also leave five minutes to give myself an impartial look over, and if I’m feeling brave - I ask my 19 year old daughter – she will never sugar coat what she thinks and I am actually very grateful for that!
5. Don’t forget your hair. This follows on from my previous point. And anyone who knows me knows I feel strongly about my hair – looking after it, and making it work for me. Your hair is a pretty pivotal accessory. If as a short girl you decide to wear something “full on” – go simple with your hair. My default is to leave my hair down - which is fine but it can look too big at times, in which case I just tie it up in a ponytail or chignon. Again, less is more.
(Me - freshly washed hair)
So there you have it, my “Fashion Rules” for short girls. Let me know what you think – and what your rules are, if any x
5 Short Girl “Fashion Rules” - Part 1:
(Me in an old (vintage!) Oscar De La Renta printed dress)
A couple of weeks ago I asked whether you have a set of fashion rules you follow, and I touched on some “well known rules” for short girls – I feel I have some valuable input here as I am 5’2”!As I have gleaned many of us have “ fashion rules” even if your rule is you don’t really care about fashion and your clothes are functional and practical.
Rightly or wrongly, I am not that kind of girl… comfort is of course important but practicality is never high on my list. My fashion philosophy is more “If I love it, I’ll make it work...”Anyway I thought I’d look at some “short girl” rules in a little more detail:
Heels. A short girl’s fashion must. Adding inches to your height makes most outfits look better and if you are anything like me – my posture improves in heels. Having decided this is a “good” rule – it would follow that short girls shouldn’t wear flats. But ultimately shoe choice, in my opinion, comes down to – what you walk well in, and what you feel comfortable and confident in.
Ankle straps. Sandals and shoes with ankle straps are apparently a fashion no-no for short girls but I don’t agree. As with any rule (or let’s say “guideline”, as not sure fashion actually needs rules) I feel we need to find what works for us. I take the point that ankle straps can shorten the line of your leg but you have to work with your own body’s proportions and personally I love an ankle strap. Play with the length of your dress or trousers to find the right balance. And if you are not great at walking in heels - ankle straps can give you more support.
(Christian Louboutin sandals)
3. Prints. This is a case-by-case subject. Smaller prints with fewer colour ways definitely work. I think prints that are too big, garish and busy do not work for short girls. However big prints can work if you take the fabric into consideration – for instance big prints on chiffon/translucent fabrics can work really well. I feel personality plays a big part in this rule. Some people whatever their height can pull off prints and some just can’t.
(Topshop Unique's Elystan blouse)
4. Hemlines. So the general rule here is shorter girls should wear shorter hemlines. Whilst this is logical and I am often in miniskirts or shorts - it is not always appropriate. Also, body shape and even age (!) comes into it. Ten years ago my shorts were really short - now they are more mid thigh…(something my 17 year old son is very grateful for!). As for midi lengths – I touched upon this in my post, “Do you have a list of fashion rules you follow?” - you never want to be drowned in a outfit, so if a dress is nipped in at your waist, the material is not too voluminous and the hem cuts your calf in the right place – you’re onto a winner. As for maxis – I would only wear something floor length if I were going to a ball and for me, the longer the better. I actually like a pool of fabric on the floor so I have to pick up my skirt as I walk. Fabric is pivotal for this hemline – think skimming rather than swamping…
(My fave Self Portrait dress - I know I have used this pic before - but it is the best example of a midi dress I have!)
5. Underwear. All I would say here is choose wisely. Above all you need to feel good and your underwear is the foundation to any outfit. Do you like “shapewear”? If you do, that’s great, I personally don’t; guard against a VPL at all costs (this is my pet hate); and if need be, don’t be shy about going without - no one needs to know you’re not wearing any underwear! I don’t remember thinking about underwear options when I was younger but as I get older and after having children I find the right underwear or lack of can make an outfit.
Ok there you have it, Part 1 of 5 Short Girl “Fashion Rules”… a few things us shorter girls could consider…what do you think? Feedback gratefully received... Part 2 later this week x
Do you have a list of fashion rules you follow?
(A night out - Gianvito Rossi sandals, Dolce and Gabbana skirt, ALC top and Ally Cappelino bag)
There are rules and regulations everywhere, even in the world of fashion. And whilst I love structure, I’m not a huge fan of being told what I can and cannot do or wear…One of the things I come across a lot when googling fashion is “What short girls should avoid wearing.
”Whilst I find these lists useful as “guidelines” (I’m 5’2”), if I steered clear of everything I was told not to wear because of my height: midi skirts/dresses, maxi skirts/dresses, stripes, shoes with ankle straps, draped blouses and dresses, prints and carrying oversized handbags to name a few I would have never discovered some of my greatest wardrobe loves - sandals with ankle straps for instance:
(Brian Attwood sandals)
Totally avoiding midi and maxi lengths as a short girl is a weird one too - as you immediately cut out so many options. And though I often wear shorter dresses and skirts – I choose my outfit depending on how I feel and what I am doing that day and sometimes it’s just not appropriate to be wearing a short skirt - at my son’s parents’ evening (!)
What I would say about longer length dresses and skirts, actually clothes in general, is fabric is key. Recently, designers have been using a lot of matelassé fabrics for their clothes and these don’t work for me. They feel too stiff and I feel swamped, so in this respect the rules are right.
However, there are always exceptions. You may have seen on my socials I have been raving about Self Portrait dresses. The lace is quite heavy - but the cut and the nude linings work and if I hadn’t tried, I wouldn’t have ended up this this gorgeous number:
(Self Portrait Azaelea dress)
Now obviously I am looking at this from my diminutive perspective. But I discovered the other day my mate Cristina, who is 5’10”, who shares my love for fashion, also finds fashion can be a challenge.
There must be a list of "tall girls rules" too – but like me, but she has learned what works for her.
Apparently cropped jeans are a nightmare as they often end up looking like Capri leggings. And dresses can also be tricky, as the waist doesn't always sit in the right place.
This hadn’t occurred to me at all, as I thought being taller made fashion altogether easier.
I guess my own rules come down to shape and proportion – mine, and the clothes I try on. Fabric (as I said), colour, print also come into play.
We all know our body shapes and have bits we want to accentuate and bits we’d like to skim over… we build our own set of fashion rules and our personal style follows.
And perhaps most importantly, we instinctively know what we love and what we don’t, and how good we feel in what we are wearing.
I’m going to leave you with a non-fashion quote, which I feel is relevant here from Sir Isaac Newton (I have as scientific past in case you didn’t know). Newton said, “ You have to make the rules, not follow them.” I completely agree…so what are your fashion rules?
Are you wearing a bomber jacket this season?
(Embroidered bomber jacket from Zara.com)
As the weather is getting brighter and warmer here in London, I‘m turning my attention to my spring/summer wardrobe.
It is no secret I adore shopping and we all love a bit of newness in our lives and the change of a season is often the ideal time to inject a new favourite or two into our wardrobes. And over the last few months there is the one thing that keeps catching my eye - the bomber jacket.
There used be a time, a very long time ago, when you had to be pilot to wear a bomber jacket but obviously this is no longer the case! Whilst this 90s fave has been around for many years, probably propelled into our fashion hearts after Top Gun - this season, it’s everywhere.
Now I have always steered clear of the bomber jacket. It has always been too much on the sporty side of fashion for me – a cool combination of tomboy and street wear. And whilst I love how it looks – we can all agree I’m not very “street” - but this spring, things are looking different.
There are definitely more feminine options around with designers producing bomber jackets in softer pastels shades rather than the traditional khakis and blues and more fluid fabrics are being used.
And suddenly, the jacket that I would never have worn has become much more versatile. Wherever you look this season it is pared with everything from dresses to skirts to jeans. And who doesn’t love versatility?
Versatility is one of the key things I consider when buying clothes. I want most things I buy to be repeatedly wearable. I love beautiful clothes that can be worn in a variety of ways and will stand the test of time – for a good few years at least.
The other reason I have never bought a bomber jacket is my daughter has one. I know many mothers and daughters who dress quite similarly – but that is not the case in this house. We have distinctly different body shapes and styles and I really like that.
(Alexus navy bomber jacket @ www.prettything.com)
Her jacket is navy sateen and whilst it looks cool and she wears it very well, I am drawn to the jackets with less padding, more embroidery and made with more luxurious fabrics.
I love to keep up with fashion but I won’t buy something just because it’s on trend or “all the rage”, it has to fit with my style. In my head the bomber jacket I am looking for is somewhere between a cardigan and a summer jacket – so that’s how I am going to wear it.
The Zara bomber jacket at the top of this post is my ideal but though I registered on the waitlist, it sold out before I got any notification :(So, undeterred I now have my eye on this Muveil one…what do you think?(Muveil embroidered silk bomber jacket Matchesfashion.com)
Stellar beauty treatments in SW London
(Bellissima Beauty Boutique in Wimbledon Village)
Rummaging around in my wallet last week I found a “£25 off” voucher for use in January at my local beauty salon, Bellissima Beauty boutique.
I don’t know if you are like me, because whilst I love a voucher or a special offer I tend to put them in my wallet or handbag and then rediscover them after the expiry date. Very frustrating…Anyway, I found this voucher in good time and booked an appointment for yesterday afternoon and took a sneaky hour and a half off and went to have a massage and a facial.
Bellissima Beauty Boutique is the salon I featured on my blog in the post, “Do you want low maintenance lovely lashes? Try this...” owned by 29 year-old Simona Masso.
Simona as I have said before, is pretty damn impressive in my opinion. Her first salon in Wimbledon Village is coming up to five years old and she has now opened a second salon in Raynes Park (right opposite Raynes Park station if you are worried about getting there).
“Bellissima Beauty & Relax” or Bellissima Raynes Park as I have it filed in my head is bigger than its Wimbledon Village sister. The idea, I think, is it is more of a spa-like environment where you are likely to go for more relaxing, longer treatments.
Having said this, both salons do everything – whether you need a manicure express, wax or a more luxurious treatment like a facial.
Anyway, back to me, and yesterday’s treatments. I had my massage and facial with Victoria Gratrick, one of the lovely therapists at Raynes Park.
A working mother, Victoria’s CV is ridiculously impressive and the places she has been headhunted to work at read like the “who’s who” of the beauty world.
From the moment I lay down on the heated bed I prayed for time to go as slowly as possible. I momentarily forgot that I would have to get back to my working day - it was unadulterated bliss.
Every treatment is tailor made for your needs and the salons use Murad and Mio products. In fact, I believe Victoria is the only trainer for Mio in the country and has designed a lot of the massage techniques used in the treatments.
I have been suffering with neck and shoulder pain over the last few weeks and came out feeling more mobile and my face was glowing after the facial.
All the therapists at both salons are trained meticulously but the most obvious thing is they clearly love what they do.
A quick word about the voucher I had. Simona and her team excel at keeping their clients happy. There are always discounts and deals galore.
You can buy courses of treatments where you pay for a certain number and get a certain number free, you get a loyalty card - which gets stamped each time you spend £50. Depending on how many stamps you have you could get a free file and paint, back massage or an hour’s facial.
So using my voucher and a loyalty stamp my visit cost £32.50, yep, you read that correctly…and it was top notch.
I’m an only child, so normally sharing is hard for me. But the care, treatments, expertise and wonderful vibe in the Bellissima salons are worth sharing. If you fancy A-list treatments, with wonderfully qualified therapists at really competitive prices – you should really check it out…
(http://www.bellissimawimbledon.co.uk)
Coffee with Matchesfashion.com's Ruth Chapman
Ruth Chapman
Ruth Chapman's Matchesfashion.com is a global luxury-shopping destination for men and women. It is all about exclusivity, beauty and aspirational fashion.
So it may not surprise you that I pop into their Wimbledon store every now and again, and often take my credit card to task…
Last week, I sat down with Ruth Chapman to talk fashion, motherhood, daily routines and future goals.
The Matchesfashion.com Wimbledon Village store
Ruth Chapman on fashion and her business
Ruth, co-founded the business with her husband Tom. The couple recently stepped down as joint chief executives after 27 years at the helm and are now joint chairmen.
“My love for fashion has always been with me, “ says Ruth, “even from the really early days. The writing was definitely on the wall. When I was at school I used to waitress to save up for dresses I had seen in Vogue.
”Her mother and her stepmother helped fuel the passion, as Ruth says they were both incredibly glamorous women - there was nothing slap dash about them getting ready to go out.
Of the company, Ruth describes her role as the “guardian of brand - Matchesfashion.com”. Nothing happens unless she sees it, likes it and approves it.
Every piece bought for a season goes through a list of lengthy considerations: do we have too many pieces that are similar? Is it relevant to the business brand? Does the design/fabrication/style justify the price point?
But most of all, Ruth and her “strong buying” team keep the customer at the forefront of all decisions. “You can never underestimate the customer’s intelligence,” she comments.
Starting with one shop, Matchesfashion.com now have 14 stores and a significant online presence, which accounts for 85% of the business.
Ruth tells me, “The company has changed a lot over the last 30 years. The British Fashion Council have been around for about 26 years, so I feel we have grown as a business alongside British creativity.
”Ruth feels that right now fashion is a very exciting place to be, “Globally, there is a huge appetite for fashion,” she says. “But when we started that wasn’t the case. I used to think the Italians dressed beautifully, I still do, but that time British people didn’t necessarily.“
“There were a few people who wanted to buy beautiful clothes but they weren’t so smitten with it as they are now, and young people weren’t as fashion obsessed. Now the whole spectrum - from 16 to 75 year old women and men are really interested in feeling current and beautiful. People are much more engaged than they were before.”
Ruth on High Street brands:
I knew the answer to this before I asked it but I asked anyway. Does Ruth Chapman ever buy on the High Street? No - not for herself, but yes for her daughters.
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Zara, she describes as “clever”.
“I do think stores like Uniqlo do commodity basics and denim really well. But I do feel it is a shame when the High Street copies a designer’s ideas.
”She continues, “This is particularly hard for young designers who haven’t made much money and although the design is uniquely theirs, they can’t protect it and that’s infuriating.
”The accessibility of fashion and how quickly the High Street can turn around catwalk looks is incredible, but it is a double-edged sword.
Ruth on Motherhood:
When Ruth talks about her children she smiles. She has poise and elegance in the way she talks about everything, so is not a “gushy” mother. But her love and pride for her three children, 22, 21 and 16, is evident.I ask how being a mother fits with the fashion business – she says, “Fashion is actually an easy industry to have children in. And working for yourself is a luxury. You can tailor your time to suit you and take time out to do what you want to with your children. If I worked in a law firm it would be so much harder.”
Ruth on Routines:
Surprisingly to me, Ruth doesn’t wake up at 4am. I don’t know why I thought she would, but I had visions of being on the phone to Australia and doing Bikram Yoga!
She starts her day at 7am – she favours a calm start to the day. She enjoys making a “delicious” breakfast with alkaline foods; draws a bath and reads the paper. Some days she exercises. She is generally always in the office for 9am.As she says, “I couldn’t think straight without my own time first thing in the morning.”
Ruth on Goals:
Without hesitation, she says, “Well, motherhood is an amazing achievement and one of my goals, though it may sound silly, is to be around to look after my grandchildren. But in truth, I’m not very strategic, I am a very live-in-the-moment person and quite organic.
”She goes on, “I never plan more than five years in advance and I never think I want to be chairman of this, or invest in that. If an opportunity presents itself, of course, we formulate a plan quickly.
”She tells me she would like to continue working, working in fashion and travelling and get involved in more charities. She and her husband currently work with a charity called Access, providing work placements for children from under privileged backgrounds.
There is a lot to Ruth Chapman – she seems to have almost the perfect balance of serenity and focus – something I certainly aspire to. Having been incredibly generous with her time, I came away having had a lovely interlude and am looking forward to seeing her in the New Year to chat about Spring/Summer 2016.
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